Gender is a significant theme in Oscar Wilde’s ‘Picture of Dorian Gray’ and knowing the context and general social attitudes towards this still contentious issue can help shed a brighter light on the meaning behind proclamations like women live ‘on their emotions’ The idea of separate spheres can help with this understanding.
Separate Spheres (What Does it Mean?)
Separate Spheres is a 19th century doctrine on appropriate activities for the sexes rooted in the binary conceptions of gender and its incorrect conflation with biological sex. Men were meant to enter the workforce and exchange ideas, exercising their physical strength and expanding their intellectual capacity. Women were meant to stay at home, providing a soft and secure base for her husband and the children she was expected to birth.
This concept relied on the idea of ‘natural’ characteristics between men and women. While women were dismissed as physically weaker, they were pedestalized as morally superior to men. This made them better suited for domestic chores. Their designated role as the purer sex was to counterbalance the moral taint of the public sphere that their hardworking husbands would have been stained with. They also had to carry on the next generation of life. This expectation was used as an argument to continue blocking women from voter’s rights.
Public Sphere: Seen as Men’s domain, giving them the freedom to move outside the home and participate easily in public life.
Private Sphere: Where Women (allegedly and definitely shouldn’t have had to) belong, taking care of household matters.
You Can’t make this Shhh up! But… Who did?
Variations of this idea have sadly existed for thousands of years in the Western world, however the first known mention is in Aristotle’s ‘Politics’. The idea became more developed during the Industrial Revolution when the roles of men and women- through the seemingly metaphysically powerful forces of socialization and shifting social norms- began to solidify. The Age of Enlightenment also has a role to play because through it emerged a theory called ‘Biological Determinism’. This theory held that people acted exclusively in accordance with their genes, not even leaving the most claustrophobic space for variables like free will, autonomy or individual differences. This theory was supported by the science of the day, being a part of the twisted legacy of science’s usage in justifying a symphony of societal ills (Don’t believe me? Look into the link between physiognomy and scientific racism). But how did this influence the routines of men and women, creating the cultural landscape for ‘A Picture of Dorian Gray’?
The 19th Century
With the pages and pages of social scripts coercively handed to men and women, by the 19th century they were primed to fulfil their respective ‘purposes’. With men away from the house more and more, women focused on overseeing the domestic duties diligently performed by servants. From the 1830s women started to adopt the crinoline, a gigantic bell-shaped skirt that scored major points on decadence but left everything to be desired in the comfortability department, rendering it almost impossible to move in, yet alone clean a grate, sweep the stairs or do any physical labor equivalent to men. ‘She is beautiful. What more can you want?’ -Chapter 7 of ‘Dorian Gray’, courtesy of Lord Henry’s flagrant misogyny. This even impacted the way women and girls were educated.
Education of Women
This primarily focused on preparing (indoctrinating, take your pick) women with the qualities that would help them become an ‘Angel in the House’. Middle-class girls were coached in what were labelled ‘accomplishments. These helped them feel more Confident, Independent, Empowered and… I’m obviously lying! This is the 19th Century we’re talking about here.
In Chapter 8 of ‘Pride and Prejudice’ Caroline Bingle lists the ‘accomplishments’ women/girls must have. This section serves as a harrowing list of the prerequisites to worthiness that were in place for women and girls at the time. They were required to have a ‘thorough knowledge of music, singing, drawing, dancing and modern languages. While on the surface women had more access than their private sphere ranking would suggest, this access was reserved to mainly white women at a certain echelon of society. Even with those women, their life had to stamped with compromises and concessions. It was very important for well-educated women to contort their erudition (intellect and great knowledge) into a palatable package because of the idea that women could have an intellectual capacity equal to men was seen as an affront to the ‘natural’ order of things.
‘We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls: “You can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise, you will threaten the man.”’- Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche (We should all be feminists and Beyoncé’s Flawless).
This misguided attitude even slipped into vernacular and infected medical viewpoints. ‘Blue stockings’ was the name for women who dared to pursue literary interests, and some doctors reported that too much study had damaging effects on the ovaries, distorting vivacious women into dried up prunes.
The Lasting Legacy of Separate Spheres ideology
Because of the idea the expectation of women to stay in the home, they were no public bathrooms for women until the 19th century. The idea of Separate Spheres waned in popularity during the early 20th century when new scientific ideas thankfully caused many to question the theory of biological determinism. The success of first-wave feminism also helped lead its slow and ongoing walk to irrelevance. So, women are more than just the ‘decorative sex’. Forget you, Lord Henry!
Unfortunately, the remains of Separate Spheres exist in society today as housework is still gendered. According to a recent study, men reported doing 19% of the housework whereas women reported doing 49%.
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https://www.bl.uk/romantics-and-victorians/articles/gender-roles-in-the-19th-century